The quintessential contraceptive method , the male condom never goes out of style. Often considered "uncomfortable," difficult to wear, and a true antagonist of sexual pleasure, it actually continues to be one of the most effective protective barriers. "Business first, pleasure second" is true, but wouldn't it be better if there were a way to combine business with pleasure? Who , what , when , where , why : the time has come to answer all the W-questions about condoms.
Male condoms: the ABC of information
Who and what: who wears it and what it is
Okay, it might seem super banal, but let's start with the basics. A condom is nothing more than a thin sheath made of latex (don't worry, there are also latex-free condoms) that, once worn, perfectly adapts to both the shape and size of the penis. It's the latter that's involved; condoms are mostly used by men, but we know there's also a female counterpart, though it's talked about in much lesser terms.
When and where : Seize the moment, wear a condom!
"Tell me when, when," someone asked. "Tell me where, tell me how," someone else replied. Musical references aside, everyone knows that a condom should be put on before every sexual encounter and carefully unwrapped to avoid small cuts on its surface. As for the "where," I'd say we're right: it's always the penis that's "covered."
Why : Here's why you should use a condom
Among the long list of contraceptives, the condom remains a timeless staple. The main reason? Its dual protection . In fact, other protective barriers like the birth control pill , the ring, or the IUD offer protection from pregnancy, but not from sexually transmitted diseases . The condom, in this respect, is doubly effective: wearing one will not only prevent unwanted pregnancies, but it will also protect you from a whole host of sexually transmitted diseases. Candida, chlamydia, gonorrhea, genital herpes, AIDS, scabies, syphilis: these are just a few of the names you probably won't encounter if you use a condom correctly.
How to choose the right condom: here (only here) size matters
Choosing a condom isn't as simple as it seems. This too requires careful consideration, especially when considering the needs of each individual. Therefore, your purchase shouldn't be a casual one, but should answer very specific questions; only in this way will you be completely satisfied and avoid the risk of finding yourself in uncomfortable situations.
How big is your penis? Here's how to choose the right condom size.
Just like clothing, condoms also have their sizes . Before purchasing one, therefore, it is essential to know your measurements. Did you know that the crux of the measurement lies entirely in the circumference of the penis ? Well yes, although it is said and although we always talk only and exclusively about length, it is the circumference that makes the difference in choosing the condom size. Suffice it to say that even in size XS, condoms are never shorter than 18 centimeters ! Okay, now that you have established this fact, do you have any idea how to measure your penis? All you need to do is be erect, take a tape measure and place it halfway up your member. While size usually doesn't matter (or at least, doesn't entirely affect the effectiveness of intercourse), in this case it is fundamental: the condom must be neither too small nor too large . In the first case, for example, the risk of condom breakage increases, while in the second case, the risk of it falling out at the peak of its tether is higher (or, in the worst case, remaining inside the vagina). To avoid this, always read the back of the package carefully and choose the right size for you.
How to wear a condom correctly
It really doesn't take much, but it has to be done right. Putting on a condom takes a few seconds: you can do it yourself, you can do it with your partner's help, or you can have him or her do it for even more excitement. To put it on correctly, keep this in mind: the condom must wrap around the entire penis , adhering to every part. Furthermore, condom packaging often also indicates the nominal width, that is, the size the condom takes when the elastic is squeezed (Example: Circumference, regular fit, nominal width 54mm ). Have you already checked the expiration date? Be careful, this detail is often forgotten, but it's important!
The range of condoms available: here are the most common types
Right after size, the other important element to consider is the reservoir . The name itself suggests it, and its shape helps explain: the reservoir is the tip of the condom and serves to collect the seminal fluid released after ejaculation. As for types, however, the range opens up to many varieties:
- Retardants
- Stimulants
- Fluorescent
- Flavored
- Colourful
- Extra lubricated
- Ultra-thin.
We bet we've made you want to try at least a couple, right? Always protect yourself —it really doesn't take much! And if you ever lose your erection while wearing a condom , don't panic; this video may offer the right solution.
See you soon! 💓
