Have you always been curious about sex toys but never plucked up the courage to buy one? Perhaps this article is a sign of destiny, and perhaps, after reading this little "guide," you'll realize the time might actually have come. I bet the questions you often ask yourself are: "Where do I start?", "What's the best sex toy for me?", "What if I don't know how to use it?", "What are the best sex toys for beginners?" Well, none of this should ever cross your mind, but I understand it's quite common, especially if you tend to cling to the '90s prejudice that "sex toys = 12-inch dildos." Now sit back, focus, read, and let yourself be won over: FeekyFeeky can only help.
Curiosity is the right push: the best sex toys for beginners
Choosing among the infinite options can be truly overwhelming. The world of sex toys is truly vast, encompassing varieties, categories, unique features, and multiple uses. The goal, however, is one: pleasure . Each sex toy has the important "task" of providing a more or less intense level of pleasure in its user; it can be individual or shared, and it can touch a single part of the body or multiple parts simultaneously. Using sex toys is a way to get to know your body and its most sensitive areas, but above all, it's a way to appreciate yourself more and appreciate all those aspects that often, whether out of fear or all the prejudices that still exist, tend to be kept hidden. The key word is freedom, and the best way to achieve it is to follow your instincts without fear.
With or without sex toys, revealing yourself is always a sign of great self-love.
I still remember my first experience with a sex toy: I was quite "old" (but age is just a number and doesn't matter), Covid was around, we were forced to stay indoors, and it had been a long time since I'd last had sex. I didn't know myself well, I didn't know myself at all, actually: I struggled to hear myself, I didn't like looking at myself, and touching myself was a huge taboo for me. Then, one evening, I don't know if it was inspired by my own intrusive thoughts, I let myself go and, after a long time, I finally discovered myself. It was one of the best nights ever. That step had been overcome (and if you're wondering, masturbating is good for your health and isn't shameful), but I had unlocked a new curiosity: what could eroticism be like with sex toys? So, seized by an unusual desire, but above all driven by the desire to feel my body alive again, I made my first online purchase. It was exhilarating to experience sensations I'd never felt before, but even before using the sex toy, it was wonderful to realize I could push myself beyond my own limits, beyond all those unhealthy prejudices my mind had built to sabotage my pleasure. I was finally more self-aware, and it felt wonderful! I won't go into the details here because they're unnecessary, but I'm here to tell you that you too, deep down, have the ability to feel and let go.
Leave your fear at home and dive into the magical world of Feeky Feeky
How many times have you considered buying a sex toy, only to be overcome by fear? At least once, for sure. Remember one important thing: there's no need to be afraid when it comes to pleasure and erotic enjoyment. Choosing sex toys is truly an experience everyone should have, because you can only discover them, and discovery is never trivial, especially when it comes to impulses and awareness of one's "erotic self." While we should emphasize and confirm that there is no minimum, maximum, or any limit to start playing with sex toys, it's always good to learn to ask yourself: " What might I like? ", "What do I need right now?", "What part of myself would I like to discover, and what sensations haven't I felt yet?" Try to think about it, and only after gathering some answers should you start browsing the various sections of the site. Start for yourself; there's always time to extend the game to others!
How to choose the right first sex toy for you
The beauty of sex toys is that they literally adapt to every desire. Some are basic, and you'd never think they conceal vibrating functions or remote-controlled actions, but that's precisely the beauty: the surprise effect ! Those who are new to sex toys, unsure how to choose a sex toy , and need to shed light on the infinite possibilities of pleasure, can start with something simple and then move up a level: a kind of evolution, a work in progress made of stimulation, discovery, and the desire to always dare more. If you find yourself in these words and feel the need to try something for the first time, perhaps that moment has truly arrived. Curiosity and imagination go hand in hand, so hold on to them and embrace this profound awareness, because not everyone can achieve it. Well, I'd say you're now ready to choose, so get on board and let all the curiosity you've developed over this time come to life and make choices spontaneously.
Sex toys for beginners? Here's a short (but comprehensive) list to inspire you.
What would you like to experiment with? Are you looking for something to stimulate you internally, or would you prefer to stay external and enjoy some vibrations? The possibilities are numerous, but if you're a girl , I recommend looking at one of these sex toys:
- Vibrating Lipstick : This is great for unforgettable clitoral stimulation. Simply turn it on and it will start vibrating. Place it on the desired area and indulge in pleasure. It's not just for the clitoris, though: the vibrating lipstick can also be used on the nipples, earlobes, neck, back, and anywhere you want to experience new sensations!
- Tecna Clit Sucker : It has 10 intensity levels, but if you're just starting out, I recommend starting at the softest and working your way up. It's very simple to use: turn on the sex toy and place it directly on your clitoris. You'll feel a gentle suction and a subsequent, intense sensation of pleasure.
- Vibrating Rabbit : This sex toy literally doubles the orgasm. The rabbit is designed to stimulate the vagina internally and the clitoris externally, all with unforgettable controlled vibration.
- Mini wand : it's small, powerful, and called Wanda. This vibrator is perfect for beginners, and don't be fooled by its small size: its powerful motor offers up to 10 vibration modes! You can use it on the clitoris or other areas of the body, and of course, you can share it with your partner or just enjoy it alone.
- Vibrating tongue : for those looking for a portable cunnilingus-like experience and wanting to experiment. This sex toy is a truly vibrating dream, even for beginners.
- Meoow Finger Vibrator : This is a must-have novelty. Simply slip it on your finger and let it caress all the areas you want, especially your clitoris!
- Gino Vibratorino Bullet Vibrator : It fits perfectly anywhere, even in your purse. This small sex toy is primarily used for the clitoris, but it's suitable for any erogenous zone!
- Butt plug : choose the one that best suits your level of experience. If you're using an anal sex toy for the first time, something soft and small is recommended. Start with a basic butt plug and when you're ready, go further, increase the diameter, and play with the one that feels most natural.
If you're on the male team , your options are either direct stimulation of the penis, or stimulation of the prostate or anus. For example, check out these sex toys:
- Vibrating ring : there are various types, but the purpose is always the same: penis stimulation. For example, the Casual Love Vibrating Ring is especially suitable for beginners: erection support, continuous vibrations, and orgasms await. Simply put it on and let yourself go: when used as a couple, the pleasure will be doubled!
- Masturbator : With this sex toy, you can experience sensations that are almost unrealistic. Choose from the available models, play with them, and let your imagination run wild;
- Butt Plug : Butt plugs are a great way to begin experiencing anal pleasure. As with girls, if you're a beginner, I recommend something soft and "small," and remember to lube everything well before use!
The ideal would be to always start from one area, explore it, enjoy it, and understand the sensations. Choices are never random, so try to pay attention to your impulses and hidden desires. You have to start somewhere, right? There is and always will be time, so try to buy the sex toy that best suits your needs at the moment and don't think about judgments or the belief that you have to talk about it with everyone: everyone experiences sexuality differently, and if the idea of sharing your experiences bothers you, well, don't do it. Your body, your choice, always !
Oh, I almost forgot: if you're having trouble answering the questions we've asked so far, why not try the quiz Feeky Feeky has made available on the site ? It'll only take three minutes, and the results will reflect your preferences. The only key word? Honesty!
See you soon and happy shopping! <3
